'Sup, my name is T.J. I've been on this site for years but am no longer active. I've made people mad here but I've also prompted people to think here - maybe even expanded a few horizons, who knows. One can hope. I dated two different girls here and tried to date two others. But in the end it was "the girl next door" who placed her hand in my outstretched one and walked down that aisle to meet me at the altar. She is the love of my life and together we have two beautiful daughters and counting. Sometimes I'm a big teddy bear but other times I can be a total dickwad (since the mods have gone awol I think I can say that now, hehe) so it is no surprise that some people absolutely love me and others, unfortunately, hate my guts. But mostly they love me, which is cool because it's something I strive for to love everyone all the time, even when I'm being a dickwad. That may not make sense to you, but if you get to know me you'll understand. So go ahead, get to know me! If we meet in person I'll give you a big old teddy bear hug so you've got nothing to be afraid of!
I'm a dad of a toddler and a newborn and I have time to read? Hilarious.
Where to even begin....... How much time do you have?